Pet loss &
bereavement
For the days when the house feels too quiet.
Losing a pet can change the shape of everyday life. Whether you are preparing to say goodbye, finding your way through grief or remembering a much-loved companion, start wherever you need to.
Free to read. No account needed.
You don’t have to work everything out today.
There is no single way to grieve. You can read a little, come back later, or go straight to someone who will listen. These pages are for everyone who has loved and lost a pet.
A little help for what comes next
Six guides to read at your own pace.
Coping with losing a pet
When familiar routines suddenly stop, even an ordinary day can feel difficult. Start with what you need today.
Read the guide Before a LossPreparing to say goodbye to your pet
Questions to take to your vet, choices you may want to discuss and ways to make a difficult appointment feel less unfamiliar.
Read the guide Difficult FeelingsGuilt after losing a pet
For the questions that keep circling: “Did I do enough?”, “Was it too soon?” or “Why wasn’t I there?”
Read the guide Family & ChildrenHelping children with pet loss
Honest, gentle conversations and simple ways to help children remember an animal they love.
Read the guide Practical HelpWhat to do when your pet dies
A gentle checklist for aftercare, practical arrangements and the things that can wait. Print it or ask someone to help.
Read the guide Memories & What Comes NextRemembering your pet
Small ways to keep a connection, approach anniversaries and think about the future when you are ready.
Read the guideYou can talk about them here.
These independent services offer space to talk about a pet who mattered to you. You do not have to find the perfect words before getting in touch.
Blue Cross Pet Loss Support
Free, confidential support after pet loss. Choose phone, webchat or email through Blue Cross.
Contact Blue Cross Check the service website for current contact details and availability.Cats Protection: Paws to Listen
Free, confidential support from trained volunteer listeners.
0800 024 94 94Monday–Friday, 9am–5pm, excluding bank holidays. A callback may be available when lines are busy.Visit Paws to Listen
Arthur, Toby and a place to turn
Arthur and Toby are part of the story behind Vet Reviews. This hub brings together practical information and sources of support for other people facing the loss of an animal they love.
Read the Vet Reviews StoryGeneral information from Vet Reviews, with links to specialist sources. For decisions about your pet’s care, speak to your vet. Support services operate independently of Vet Reviews.